The Dos and Don’ts of Practicing Affirmations
Oct 24, 2025
Affirmations can reshape the way you think — but like any practice, how you use them matters.
Here are the key do’s and don’ts to help your affirmation routine feel genuine, effective, and balanced.
Do: Keep Them Believable
Affirmations should stretch your mindset, not break it. If something feels too unrealistic, soften it.
Instead of “I love everything about myself,” try “I’m learning to appreciate myself more each day.”
Your brain needs to believe the words for them to take root.
Do: Be Consistent
Repetition is what rewires the brain. Choose a few affirmations and repeat them daily — ideally at the same times.
Apps like Better help automate this habit so it feels natural and sustainable.
Do: Feel the Words
Affirmations are not mantras to be rushed through.
Say them slowly, breathe deeply, and feel what they mean.
Emotion activates the part of your brain that turns words into belief.
Don't: Use Them to Avoid Feelings
Affirmations should not replace emotional honesty.
If you’re sad or anxious, acknowledge those feelings first — then use affirmations to move through them with compassion.
Don't: Expect Instant Change
Affirmations are gentle rewiring — not quick fixes.
Think of them as daily nourishment for your mindset. The results come quietly, over time.
Don't: Compare Your Practice
Your affirmations are yours alone. Don’t worry about doing it “right” — what matters is consistency and sincerity.
✨ When practiced with intention and presence, affirmations become more than words — they become the foundation of inner peace.
